"I really wish I was less of a thinking man & more of a fool not afraid of rejection" - Billy Joel
Look at the dates of my previous two articles in this blog. I didn't tell much people about my-blog-writing craze. Every time when strikes my head, I love to put it on paper. Some are still caged inside the brain.
For some misplaced internal fear, I didn't put my pen-paper-thought side public.
Fear of REJECTION:
This is the fear, the culprit. This is the only one. If not observed, it has a deep drilled impact on our lives. If left overlooked, it may incept into each & every part of our life.
Maybe with different experiences for all, it affects success in almost all parts of your life. Here some prominent scenes:
1. You are a super duper storage of a knowledge in your interest, yet you fail to display it in interviews. This way you gave a room to others to put you down and hear him say.. 'NEXT..!'
2. One of the most famous: 'SHE LIKES ME, SHE LIKES ME NOT'. You do not express your real gist to the person you like/love. And DISHOOM, you forgot that every offer is valid ONLY still stock lasts.
3. Man is a social animal. He belongs to a crazy, stupid society, that pushes him in many ways. Pushes him daily. He gets pushed. He begins wearing mask. A mask that behaves in the forced order, such as, dressing, speaking, walking, talking, not-talking, much more & more & more.....
Hence fear is inculcated which leads to discomfort in front of friends of friends, turning your head & walk your way when something you sense is wrong. Leading a stale & scripted life. Rejection stops you from being, YOU!
4. Others include:
4.1: Always saying yes, even if saying yes may cost you many things.
4.2: Given a task, you will find every way to criticize it & others involved in it.
4.3: You are always satisfied with what is given in your plate. You never ask/inquire, digesting all the discrepancies surrounded.
"Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith." - Steve Jobs.
Almost everyone of us has come across this line: LIFE IS A JOURNEY. It is perfectly true. We often stop ourselves with a fall that badly hurts our brain, mind and heart. In a way, it makes roots for rejection to grow vivid.
But, this isn't the stop. This isn't the end. Human spirit is the biggest impulse in the universe. Replace rejection with fear of not able to try/achieve it. A simple 'to-do-list-before I die' might help a lot. Go out. Be Mad. Wander around. Listen to what you like, hear rest. Take risk. Have faith. Be free.
"I take rejection as someone blowing a bugle in my ear to wake me up and get going, rather than retreat." - Sylvester Stalone
Look at the dates of my previous two articles in this blog. I didn't tell much people about my-blog-writing craze. Every time when strikes my head, I love to put it on paper. Some are still caged inside the brain.
For some misplaced internal fear, I didn't put my pen-paper-thought side public.
Fear of REJECTION:
This is the fear, the culprit. This is the only one. If not observed, it has a deep drilled impact on our lives. If left overlooked, it may incept into each & every part of our life.
Maybe with different experiences for all, it affects success in almost all parts of your life. Here some prominent scenes:
1. You are a super duper storage of a knowledge in your interest, yet you fail to display it in interviews. This way you gave a room to others to put you down and hear him say.. 'NEXT..!'
2. One of the most famous: 'SHE LIKES ME, SHE LIKES ME NOT'. You do not express your real gist to the person you like/love. And DISHOOM, you forgot that every offer is valid ONLY still stock lasts.
3. Man is a social animal. He belongs to a crazy, stupid society, that pushes him in many ways. Pushes him daily. He gets pushed. He begins wearing mask. A mask that behaves in the forced order, such as, dressing, speaking, walking, talking, not-talking, much more & more & more.....
Hence fear is inculcated which leads to discomfort in front of friends of friends, turning your head & walk your way when something you sense is wrong. Leading a stale & scripted life. Rejection stops you from being, YOU!
4. Others include:
4.1: Always saying yes, even if saying yes may cost you many things.
4.2: Given a task, you will find every way to criticize it & others involved in it.
4.3: You are always satisfied with what is given in your plate. You never ask/inquire, digesting all the discrepancies surrounded.
"Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith." - Steve Jobs.
Almost everyone of us has come across this line: LIFE IS A JOURNEY. It is perfectly true. We often stop ourselves with a fall that badly hurts our brain, mind and heart. In a way, it makes roots for rejection to grow vivid.But, this isn't the stop. This isn't the end. Human spirit is the biggest impulse in the universe. Replace rejection with fear of not able to try/achieve it. A simple 'to-do-list-before I die' might help a lot. Go out. Be Mad. Wander around. Listen to what you like, hear rest. Take risk. Have faith. Be free.
"I take rejection as someone blowing a bugle in my ear to wake me up and get going, rather than retreat." - Sylvester Stalone
1 comment:
Nice one dheeru..
Post a Comment